Aditya Kothadiya's Blog

… but I still do it.

Gossiping is such thing that almost everybody love it when they do it, and then they hate it when they are done with it. Its very hard to control the gossiping. We know that we are not doing the right thing, but we still can’t control doing it.

But if we love it so much, why do we think that we are not doing the right thing?

Whats wrong with the gossiping?

"Its not good manner."

"It makes us to think and speak bad about someone."

"It spreads the bad things about someone in the community."

True. But I think the biggest problem with the gossiping is — it destroys our relationship with the person about whom we are gossiping.

I think, when we gossip about someone, we prejudice our mind. And next time when we meet that person, our relations are not the same as they used to be. We have a different outlook when we look at that person. It just spoils our original relation.

And thats why I hate it! And thats why I am going to learn how not to gossip!