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		<title>By: sonic games</title>
		<link>http://adityakothadiya.com/2008/04/what-they-dont-tell-you-about-starting-a-startup/comment-page-1/#comment-559</link>
		<dc:creator>sonic games</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 May 2010 23:49:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hey thanks, that is awesome article.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey thanks, that is awesome article.</p>
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		<title>By: Aditya Kothadiya</title>
		<link>http://adityakothadiya.com/2008/04/what-they-dont-tell-you-about-starting-a-startup/comment-page-1/#comment-24</link>
		<dc:creator>Aditya Kothadiya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 09:18:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Mattijs Naus and @All,

I wrote that article because I&#039;m experiencing few things that I wanted to share. I&#039;m working on starting a startup, handling all marriage and day job responsibilities. I find it very challenging, but I still push myself because it&#039;s my character flaw - that I want to start a startup. To make this happen, I&#039;m also looking for building a founding team. For that, I&#039;m talking to few people who shared their interest of starting a startup.

Whenever I talk to some young professional, the most common observation I have seen is - almost everyone wants to start a startup, literally almost everyone. But the fact is - they just don&#039;t know what it takes to make it work -- the insane hard work at initial stages. They just talk about success stories, but when it comes to put the time and build stuff, they disappear. And that&#039;s how I got inspired to share this thought on my blog.

I am not saying we should take that advice seriously and stop working on our dreams. That advice was more for those people who &quot;think&quot; they want to start a startup, but probably don&#039;t understand the reality to make it happen.

- Aditya, (Adeologue)
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Mattijs Naus and @All,</p>
<p>I wrote that article because I&#8217;m experiencing few things that I wanted to share. I&#8217;m working on starting a startup, handling all marriage and day job responsibilities. I find it very challenging, but I still push myself because it&#8217;s my character flaw &#8211; that I want to start a startup. To make this happen, I&#8217;m also looking for building a founding team. For that, I&#8217;m talking to few people who shared their interest of starting a startup.</p>
<p>Whenever I talk to some young professional, the most common observation I have seen is &#8211; almost everyone wants to start a startup, literally almost everyone. But the fact is &#8211; they just don&#8217;t know what it takes to make it work &#8212; the insane hard work at initial stages. They just talk about success stories, but when it comes to put the time and build stuff, they disappear. And that&#8217;s how I got inspired to share this thought on my blog.</p>
<p>I am not saying we should take that advice seriously and stop working on our dreams. That advice was more for those people who &#8220;think&#8221; they want to start a startup, but probably don&#8217;t understand the reality to make it happen.</p>
<p>- Aditya, (Adeologue)</p>
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		<title>By: Aditya Kothadiya</title>
		<link>http://adityakothadiya.com/2008/04/what-they-dont-tell-you-about-starting-a-startup/comment-page-1/#comment-698</link>
		<dc:creator>Aditya Kothadiya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 09:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Mattijs Naus and @All,

I wrote that article because I&#039;m experiencing few things that I wanted to share. I&#039;m working on starting a startup, handling all marriage and day job responsibilities. I find it very challenging, but I still push myself because it&#039;s my character flaw - that I want to start a startup. To make this happen, I&#039;m also looking for building a founding team. For that, I&#039;m talking to few people who shared their interest of starting a startup.

Whenever I talk to some young professional, the most common observation I have seen is - almost everyone wants to start a startup, literally almost everyone. But the fact is - they just don&#039;t know what it takes to make it work -- the insane hard work at initial stages. They just talk about success stories, but when it comes to put the time and build stuff, they disappear. And that&#039;s how I got inspired to share this thought on my blog.

I am not saying we should take that advice seriously and stop working on our dreams. That advice was more for those people who &quot;think&quot; they want to start a startup, but probably don&#039;t understand the reality to make it happen.

- Aditya, (Adeologue)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Mattijs Naus and @All,</p>
<p>I wrote that article because I&#8217;m experiencing few things that I wanted to share. I&#8217;m working on starting a startup, handling all marriage and day job responsibilities. I find it very challenging, but I still push myself because it&#8217;s my character flaw &#8211; that I want to start a startup. To make this happen, I&#8217;m also looking for building a founding team. For that, I&#8217;m talking to few people who shared their interest of starting a startup.</p>
<p>Whenever I talk to some young professional, the most common observation I have seen is &#8211; almost everyone wants to start a startup, literally almost everyone. But the fact is &#8211; they just don&#8217;t know what it takes to make it work &#8212; the insane hard work at initial stages. They just talk about success stories, but when it comes to put the time and build stuff, they disappear. And that&#8217;s how I got inspired to share this thought on my blog.</p>
<p>I am not saying we should take that advice seriously and stop working on our dreams. That advice was more for those people who &#8220;think&#8221; they want to start a startup, but probably don&#8217;t understand the reality to make it happen.</p>
<p>- Aditya, (Adeologue)</p>
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		<title>By: Vaibhav</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vaibhav</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 08:27:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I somewhat agree with your article. I happen to be the co-organizer of Open Coffee Club events in Bangalore and while interacting with hundreds of entrepreneurs, this is something which has come up as a fact.
Its painful, but where on this earth can you get huge gains without taking pains.
Cheers
Vaibhav

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I somewhat agree with your article. I happen to be the co-organizer of Open Coffee Club events in Bangalore and while interacting with hundreds of entrepreneurs, this is something which has come up as a fact.<br />
Its painful, but where on this earth can you get huge gains without taking pains.<br />
Cheers<br />
Vaibhav</p>
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		<title>By: Vaibhav</title>
		<link>http://adityakothadiya.com/2008/04/what-they-dont-tell-you-about-starting-a-startup/comment-page-1/#comment-699</link>
		<dc:creator>Vaibhav</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 08:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I somewhat agree with your article. I happen to be the co-organizer of Open Coffee Club events in Bangalore and while interacting with hundreds of entrepreneurs, this is something which has come up as a fact.
Its painful, but where on this earth can you get huge gains without taking pains.
Cheers
Vaibhav</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I somewhat agree with your article. I happen to be the co-organizer of Open Coffee Club events in Bangalore and while interacting with hundreds of entrepreneurs, this is something which has come up as a fact.<br />
Its painful, but where on this earth can you get huge gains without taking pains.<br />
Cheers<br />
Vaibhav</p>
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		<title>By: Mattijs Naus</title>
		<link>http://adityakothadiya.com/2008/04/what-they-dont-tell-you-about-starting-a-startup/comment-page-1/#comment-26</link>
		<dc:creator>Mattijs Naus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 03:31:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I completely disagree with your article. There are tons of real life example of entrepreneurs being successful in building a great company while still having enough time and energy to have a proper social life/family life.

It&#039;s only the ridiculous sub-reality in the valley which is having people believe this is not possible. All these college dropouts hoping to become the next Google and going for the big payout, well... they would probably sell their souls to make this happen, let alone give up any existence outside their &quot;startup&quot;.

Finding something you love doing, finding a way to make some money while doing it and turning this into your main stream of income, does absolutely NOT means you have to kiss your social life/family life goodbye!
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I completely disagree with your article. There are tons of real life example of entrepreneurs being successful in building a great company while still having enough time and energy to have a proper social life/family life.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s only the ridiculous sub-reality in the valley which is having people believe this is not possible. All these college dropouts hoping to become the next Google and going for the big payout, well&#8230; they would probably sell their souls to make this happen, let alone give up any existence outside their &#8220;startup&#8221;.</p>
<p>Finding something you love doing, finding a way to make some money while doing it and turning this into your main stream of income, does absolutely NOT means you have to kiss your social life/family life goodbye!</p>
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		<title>By: Mattijs Naus</title>
		<link>http://adityakothadiya.com/2008/04/what-they-dont-tell-you-about-starting-a-startup/comment-page-1/#comment-700</link>
		<dc:creator>Mattijs Naus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 03:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I completely disagree with your article. There are tons of real life example of entrepreneurs being successful in building a great company while still having enough time and energy to have a proper social life/family life.

It&#039;s only the ridiculous sub-reality in the valley which is having people believe this is not possible. All these college dropouts hoping to become the next Google and going for the big payout, well... they would probably sell their souls to make this happen, let alone give up any existence outside their &quot;startup&quot;.

Finding something you love doing, finding a way to make some money while doing it and turning this into your main stream of income, does absolutely NOT means you have to kiss your social life/family life goodbye!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I completely disagree with your article. There are tons of real life example of entrepreneurs being successful in building a great company while still having enough time and energy to have a proper social life/family life.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s only the ridiculous sub-reality in the valley which is having people believe this is not possible. All these college dropouts hoping to become the next Google and going for the big payout, well&#8230; they would probably sell their souls to make this happen, let alone give up any existence outside their &#8220;startup&#8221;.</p>
<p>Finding something you love doing, finding a way to make some money while doing it and turning this into your main stream of income, does absolutely NOT means you have to kiss your social life/family life goodbye!</p>
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		<title>By: Ilia</title>
		<link>http://adityakothadiya.com/2008/04/what-they-dont-tell-you-about-starting-a-startup/comment-page-1/#comment-27</link>
		<dc:creator>Ilia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 02:37:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah I completely agree on the fact that start up/projects do take a lot out of your personal life, but I also feel that if you do start a start up, you either give 100% to it or nothing as doing it like a hobby will not yield as much result as possible and ultimately fail. Please correct me if I am wrong. I am currently in this position - I have a start up (fictionthis.com), I also work full time and I do have a young family.

Ilia
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah I completely agree on the fact that start up/projects do take a lot out of your personal life, but I also feel that if you do start a start up, you either give 100% to it or nothing as doing it like a hobby will not yield as much result as possible and ultimately fail. Please correct me if I am wrong. I am currently in this position &#8211; I have a start up (fictionthis.com), I also work full time and I do have a young family.</p>
<p>Ilia</p>
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		<title>By: Ilia</title>
		<link>http://adityakothadiya.com/2008/04/what-they-dont-tell-you-about-starting-a-startup/comment-page-1/#comment-701</link>
		<dc:creator>Ilia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 02:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah I completely agree on the fact that start up/projects do take a lot out of your personal life, but I also feel that if you do start a start up, you either give 100% to it or nothing as doing it like a hobby will not yield as much result as possible and ultimately fail. Please correct me if I am wrong. I am currently in this position - I have a start up (fictionthis.com), I also work full time and I do have a young family.

Ilia</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah I completely agree on the fact that start up/projects do take a lot out of your personal life, but I also feel that if you do start a start up, you either give 100% to it or nothing as doing it like a hobby will not yield as much result as possible and ultimately fail. Please correct me if I am wrong. I am currently in this position &#8211; I have a start up (fictionthis.com), I also work full time and I do have a young family.</p>
<p>Ilia</p>
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		<title>By: Sean Murphy</title>
		<link>http://adityakothadiya.com/2008/04/what-they-dont-tell-you-about-starting-a-startup/comment-page-1/#comment-28</link>
		<dc:creator>Sean Murphy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 01:45:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Probably the best book on entrepreneurial roller coaster is Barry Moltz&#039;s &quot;You Have to Be a Little Crazy&quot; which includes an excellent introduction by Howard Tullman that is directly on point to the real issues of entrepreneurship: Identity, Family, and Failure. Tullman notes &quot;Identity is important because entrepreneurs constantly confuse what they do with who they are. We’re all certainly responsible for what we do but failing doesn’t make us bad people and succeeding doesn’t make us omniscient.&quot;

Keeping in mind that no one wished they had spent more time at the office on their deathbed, Tullman notes &quot;Family is important because it’s a much more important extension of ourselves than any work we’ll ever do. There’s always more work but you’ve only got one family.&quot; which is certainly counter to Currier&#039;s approach  of subordinating family to startup.

More on the book
http://www.amazon.com/You-Need-Be-Little-Crazy/dp/079318018X/

More on Barry Moltz
http://www.barrymoltz.com/

Two blog entries I wrote relative to Moltz&#039;s book
http://www.skmurphy.com/blog/2006/12/27/you-need-to-be-a-little-crazy/
http://www.skmurphy.com/blog/2007/10/16/the-challenge-of-advising-entrepreneurs/

Moltz himself observes &quot;Entrepreneurs start businesses because..they have no choice. Passion and energy drive them on good days and sustain them on bad days.&quot; I agree with his  assessment: sometimes we pursue our dreams and sometimes they pursue us, but in neither case do most entrepreneurs have a real choice.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Probably the best book on entrepreneurial roller coaster is Barry Moltz&#8217;s &#8220;You Have to Be a Little Crazy&#8221; which includes an excellent introduction by Howard Tullman that is directly on point to the real issues of entrepreneurship: Identity, Family, and Failure. Tullman notes &#8220;Identity is important because entrepreneurs constantly confuse what they do with who they are. We’re all certainly responsible for what we do but failing doesn’t make us bad people and succeeding doesn’t make us omniscient.&#8221;</p>
<p>Keeping in mind that no one wished they had spent more time at the office on their deathbed, Tullman notes &#8220;Family is important because it’s a much more important extension of ourselves than any work we’ll ever do. There’s always more work but you’ve only got one family.&#8221; which is certainly counter to Currier&#8217;s approach  of subordinating family to startup.</p>
<p>More on the book<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/You-Need-Be-Little-Crazy/dp/079318018X/" rel="nofollow">http://www.amazon.com/You-Need-Be-Little-Crazy/dp/079318018X/</a></p>
<p>More on Barry Moltz<br />
<a href="http://www.barrymoltz.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.barrymoltz.com/</a></p>
<p>Two blog entries I wrote relative to Moltz&#8217;s book<br />
<a href="http://www.skmurphy.com/blog/2006/12/27/you-need-to-be-a-little-crazy/" rel="nofollow">http://www.skmurphy.com/blog/2006/12/27/you-need-to-be-a-little-crazy/</a><br />
<a href="http://www.skmurphy.com/blog/2007/10/16/the-challenge-of-advising-entrepreneurs/" rel="nofollow">http://www.skmurphy.com/blog/2007/10/16/the-challenge-of-advising-entrepreneurs/</a></p>
<p>Moltz himself observes &#8220;Entrepreneurs start businesses because..they have no choice. Passion and energy drive them on good days and sustain them on bad days.&#8221; I agree with his  assessment: sometimes we pursue our dreams and sometimes they pursue us, but in neither case do most entrepreneurs have a real choice.</p>
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